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sampuppydog
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« on: October 27, 2009, 01:53:08 AM »

Hi there
It has been 14 months since I lost my beloved son to cancer and it is not getting any easier for me.  My boy is always on my mind,I have to go and see him every day.  I feel so alone, I break down all the time anywhere which some people find embarrassing.  My daughter in law has not spoken to me or will let me see my 2 grand-daughters, who I was very close to, thats really hurting me. 

I,m always feeling sickly, headaches, very low as now I am having problems in work.  How much more can I take Huh?

Paul was my lucky charm, but since loosing him nothing has gone right for me. 
Life is shit for me at the moment, just hoping I come out of this deep dark hole I feel I am in.

Sorry about this but this is how I am feeling at the moment.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and I look forward to your reply.


TC Lyn x   
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ivan
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« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2009, 09:55:48 PM »

Welcome

We all feel for you-your pain and hurt--i am four years down the road and still find most days raw -as you go down memory lane freqently-hang on-you will still have the pain-but will with time leatn to cope better with it-stay strong-you are not alone-

bess
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« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2011, 12:04:25 AM »

Hi ((Lyn))


i'm thinking of you and your family
praying for you and sending love & light to you all

I am here if you need to talk

I wish I had tips for you, but I am in the same boat, I hope you are feeling better soon, it's the worst feeling ever when you are in this dark tunnel. all I can say is I am here for you and Im praying for you hun

Sam
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« Reply #3 on: November 01, 2011, 12:22:38 AM »

Iii know a lot of people that never thought they would survive the grief,pain,agony that came with a loss.
They have.
Somehow the human brain/body finds a way to push your forward day by day and survive. You will as I and others have,

You are not alone.

Keep strong
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« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2011, 01:18:53 PM »

to broken hearted mum
I also lost my daughter to cancer 17 months ago - she should not have died. Doctors make some terrible decisions.  I am now comfortable in the knowledge that normal will never be the same for me again.  I know if I have a few good days, that the inevitable crash is not far away for me. I am now comfortable with this.  It is a very lonely journey for a surviving parent,
I hope you are having some good parts of some days
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« Reply #5 on: November 22, 2011, 02:16:05 PM »

Have belief
You will survive, painfull as it may be.
We have travelled the same road and made it

Ivan
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